Dealing With Negativity

Dealing With Negativity “We focus so much on our differences, and that is creating, I think, a lot of chaos and negativity and bullying in the world. And I think if everybody focused on what we all have in common – which is – we all want to be happy.” Ellen DeGeneres If you are […]

Malibu Getaway What’s In My Bag

It’s Fall in LA and that means it’s time for my Malibu getaway with my girl friends. There is nothing like Los Angeles in the Fall. The weather starts to get a little cooler but you can still sun bath in the day. Great bars and restaurants in the evening. Hot surfers! What more could […]

The Giver

If you are interested in a Life Coaching session, please email me for more information: [email protected] Yesterday, my roommate and I went to see the film The Giver. I know, I have to read the book. Books are always better. Anyway, I enjoyed the film because I thought the message was really beautiful. As humans […]

How To Deal With A Breakup

How To Deal With A Breakup Breakups can be incredibly painful. A broken heart can strip us of our confidence and happiness. Even though this experience can be horrible, it is also filled with great beauty. There are so many lessons to be learned from a breakup that can make your next relationship more loving […]

Robin Williams Death

Robin Williams Death This was a sad week for many of us. Robin Williams was a great talent whose comedy transcended generations. He spent a lifetime masking his pain while entertaining the world. Even though most of us never met Mr. Williams, we were shocked by his suicide. I believe one of the reason we […]

How To Overcome Your Ego

How To Overcome Your Ego This week was loco! I tried the master cleanse with my roommate. We were doing it for 2 days but I broke on the second day. OMG…that cleanse is intense. I caution everyone to read about it and have a couple free days when they do it 🙂 Anyway, while […]

Online Dating Tips

Online Dating Tips Online Dating has officially taken all single people captive. The once taboo feelings surrounding online dating no longer exist. All my single girlfriends have turned into dating machines. The experience of online dating can be a very positive thing if done right. I look at it as an opportunity to meet new […]

Strength Leggings!

Leggings for the Confused Girls trying to figure it out! Crystal Inspired Design!  The leggings tell a story. They represent principles I live by. Principles that have helped me through life’s most confusing times. My first design of leggings are called “STRENGTH”. The pattern on the leggings are images taken directly from a beautiful Brazilian […]

How To Overcome Fear

How To Overcome Fear “Don’t give in to your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.” ― Paulo Coelho, About a year ago, I had a pretty big awakening and realized that fear had been controlling my life. It is so easy to get swept away in fear. As […]

How To Forgive Yourself

“It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, to forgive. Forgive everybody.” -Maya Angelou We all have wounds from our past that need healing. Unfortunately, we can hurt others when our pain is running the show. When we lash out at someone else, we are actually hurting ourselves. Forgiveness is the key that […]

Dealing with Emotional Pain

Dealing with Emotional Pain homepage “There is no way out but through” Everyone of us will experience pain and suffering in our life. And most of the time it will be self-inflicted. It is through pain and adversity that we grow more grounded and humble. We become more soulful and wise. Here are some tools […]

How To Stop Negative Thoughts

How To Stop Negative Thoughts https://confusedgirlinthecity.com We all struggle with that negative voice in our head. Here are some tools to shut the little guy up 😉 “It takes but one positive thought when given a chance to survive and thrive to overpower an entire army of negative thoughts.” -Robert H. Schuller Leave your comments! […]