Author Archives: ConfusedGirlLA

How To Love Yourself

How To Love Yourself “Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” –Lucille Ball About 2 years ago I realized that I didn’t love myself nor did I know myself. So, I began my journey of self love and up until […]

How To Overcome Your Ego

How To Overcome Your Ego This week was loco! I tried the master cleanse with my roommate. We were doing it for 2 days but I broke on the second day. OMG…that cleanse is intense. I caution everyone to read about it and have a couple free days when they do it 🙂 Anyway, while […]

Online Dating Tips

Online Dating Tips Online Dating has officially taken all single people captive. The once taboo feelings surrounding online dating no longer exist. All my single girlfriends have turned into dating machines. The experience of online dating can be a very positive thing if done right. I look at it as an opportunity to meet new […]

Strength Leggings!

Leggings for the Confused Girls trying to figure it out! Crystal Inspired Design!  The leggings tell a story. They represent principles I live by. Principles that have helped me through life’s most confusing times. My first design of leggings are called “STRENGTH”. The pattern on the leggings are images taken directly from a beautiful Brazilian […]

How To Overcome Fear

How To Overcome Fear “Don’t give in to your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.” ― Paulo Coelho, About a year ago, I had a pretty big awakening and realized that fear had been controlling my life. It is so easy to get swept away in fear. As […]

How To Forgive Yourself

“It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, to forgive. Forgive everybody.” -Maya Angelou We all have wounds from our past that need healing. Unfortunately, we can hurt others when our pain is running the show. When we lash out at someone else, we are actually hurting ourselves. Forgiveness is the key that […]

Dealing with Emotional Pain

Dealing with Emotional Pain homepage “There is no way out but through” Everyone of us will experience pain and suffering in our life. And most of the time it will be self-inflicted. It is through pain and adversity that we grow more grounded and humble. We become more soulful and wise. Here are some tools […]

How To Stop Negative Thoughts

How To Stop Negative Thoughts We all struggle with that negative voice in our head. Here are some tools to shut the little guy up 😉 “It takes but one positive thought when given a chance to survive and thrive to overpower an entire army of negative thoughts.” -Robert H. Schuller Leave your comments! […]

Dealing with Failure

Dealing With Failure At some point in all our lives we are going to deal with failure. “You win a little you lose a little.”  If that is the case, then why are we so scared of failing? Some people are so scared that they never try and others fail and never try again. This […]

Confused Girl Fashion

STRENGTH We are designing a series of  Eco-Friendly leggings that represent TRUE BEAUTY. The leggings are a symbol of what it means to be a truly beautiful woman. My first design of leggings are called “STRENGTH”. The pattern on the leggings are images taken directly from a beautiful Brazilian Geode Crystal. This is a stone […]

How To Make Good Friends

How To Make Good Friends Many psychologists and people that are about to pass away say “the most sacred thing in life is the relationships we form with others”. It’s not the career we have nor our money in the bank. It’s the love that we give and receive from the people we cherish. This […]

Self Sabotaging Relationships

Self Sabotaging Relationships I’ve been known to self sabotage my own happiness. I think it is a common thing we do when we start to feel a certain level of joy. Unfortunately, in our society we are not taught to be happy so the uncommon feeling can really freak us out. In this video I […]