How To Stop Negative Thoughts https://confusedgirlinthecity.com We all struggle with that negative voice in our head. Here are some tools to shut the little guy up 😉 “It takes but one positive thought when given a chance to survive and thrive to overpower an entire army of negative thoughts.” -Robert H. Schuller Leave your comments! […]
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Dealing With Failure At some point in all our lives we are going to deal with failure. “You win a little you lose a little.” If that is the case, then why are we so scared of failing? Some people are so scared that they never try and others fail and never try again. This […]
STRENGTH We are designing a series of Eco-Friendly leggings that represent TRUE BEAUTY. The leggings are a symbol of what it means to be a truly beautiful woman. My first design of leggings are called “STRENGTH”. The pattern on the leggings are images taken directly from a beautiful Brazilian Geode Crystal. This is a stone […]
How To Make Good Friends Many psychologists and people that are about to pass away say “the most sacred thing in life is the relationships we form with others”. It’s not the career we have nor our money in the bank. It’s the love that we give and receive from the people we cherish. This […]
Self Sabotaging Relationships I’ve been known to self sabotage my own happiness. I think it is a common thing we do when we start to feel a certain level of joy. Unfortunately, in our society we are not taught to be happy so the uncommon feeling can really freak us out. In this video I […]
How To Overcome Social Anxiety I have come to believe that social anxiety is just part of the human experience. Even though some suffer more than others, everyone knows how it feels to become anxious in social situations. In this video, I talk about 3 ways that will help you deal with this issue. “Nothing […]
When A Friend Hits On Your Man I got an anonymous message from a girl asking for advice about her situation. Her good friend has been hitting on her boyfriend and she doesn’t know what to do. Well friendships can be tough and every situation is different but from where I’m standing, life is too […]
How To Not Give A F@#k In a world that cares way too much about other people’s opinions, “How To Not Give A F@#k” is the problem-free philosophy of replacing attachment and desire with a perpetual strive for self-improvement and growth. We are all on a unique journey and need to be true to ourselves. […]
You Can’t Always Get What You Want “You can’t always get what you want But if you try sometimes well you might find You get what you need” ~ Rolling Stones This week, a friend and I struggled with not getting what we thought was rightfully coming to us. After our devastation, I pondered why […]
Young Adult Our society tends to dismiss play for adults. Play is perceived as unproductive, petty or even a guilty pleasure. The notion is that once we reach adulthood, it’s time to get serious. And between personal and professional responsibilities, there’s no time to play. Change how you think about play. Remember that play is […]
The Casual Breakup Break ups, even causal ones, have their casualties. The “take no prisoners” attitude needs to change!
Why Men Love Football This last Sunday I got peer pressured into going to a Super Bowl party. I really just wanted to stay at home and watch the Real Housewives but sometimes the FOMO is too great. I decided to turn this event into a social experiment and examine “why men love football.” There […]
