How To Overcome Your Ego This week was loco! I tried the master cleanse with my roommate. We were doing it for 2 days but I broke on the second day. OMG…that cleanse is intense. I caution everyone to read about it and have a couple free days when they do it 🙂 Anyway, while […]
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Online Dating Tips Online Dating has officially taken all single people captive. The once taboo feelings surrounding online dating no longer exist. All my single girlfriends have turned into dating machines. The experience of online dating can be a very positive thing if done right. I look at it as an opportunity to meet new […]
How To Overcome Fear “Don’t give in to your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.” ― Paulo Coelho, About a year ago, I had a pretty big awakening and realized that fear had been controlling my life. It is so easy to get swept away in fear. As […]
How To Stop Negative Thoughts https://confusedgirlinthecity.com We all struggle with that negative voice in our head. Here are some tools to shut the little guy up 😉 “It takes but one positive thought when given a chance to survive and thrive to overpower an entire army of negative thoughts.” -Robert H. Schuller Leave your comments! […]
Dealing With Failure At some point in all our lives we are going to deal with failure. “You win a little you lose a little.” If that is the case, then why are we so scared of failing? Some people are so scared that they never try and others fail and never try again. This […]
How To Not Give A F@#k In a world that cares way too much about other people’s opinions, “How To Not Give A F@#k” is the problem-free philosophy of replacing attachment and desire with a perpetual strive for self-improvement and growth. We are all on a unique journey and need to be true to ourselves. […]
Mirror Mirror On The Wall Who Is The Fairest Of Them All I got a little introspective this week after a conversation with 2 different guys at an art event. I found the one that was less attractive according to society’s standards to be way more attractive. This got me thinking about our ideals of […]
You Can’t Always Get What You Want “You can’t always get what you want But if you try sometimes well you might find You get what you need” ~ Rolling Stones This week, a friend and I struggled with not getting what we thought was rightfully coming to us. After our devastation, I pondered why […]
Young Adult Our society tends to dismiss play for adults. Play is perceived as unproductive, petty or even a guilty pleasure. The notion is that once we reach adulthood, it’s time to get serious. And between personal and professional responsibilities, there’s no time to play. Change how you think about play. Remember that play is […]
The Casual Breakup Break ups, even causal ones, have their casualties. The “take no prisoners” attitude needs to change!
Why Men Love Football This last Sunday I got peer pressured into going to a Super Bowl party. I really just wanted to stay at home and watch the Real Housewives but sometimes the FOMO is too great. I decided to turn this event into a social experiment and examine “why men love football.” There […]
Ask Confused Girl “When People Talk Trash” “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.” – Eleanor Roosevelt Katie from LA wrote me a message about a Co- worker who said some pretty nasty things about her to a business associate. Like Katie, we all have had people say mean things […]
