How To Overcome Fear “Don’t give in to your fears. If you do, you won’t be able to talk to your heart.” ― Paulo Coelho, About a year ago, I had a pretty big awakening and realized that fear had been controlling my life. It is so easy to get swept away in fear. As […]
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“It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, to forgive. Forgive everybody.” -Maya Angelou We all have wounds from our past that need healing. Unfortunately, we can hurt others when our pain is running the show. When we lash out at someone else, we are actually hurting ourselves. Forgiveness is the key that […]
Dealing with Emotional Pain homepage “There is no way out but through” Everyone of us will experience pain and suffering in our life. And most of the time it will be self-inflicted. It is through pain and adversity that we grow more grounded and humble. We become more soulful and wise. Here are some tools […]
How To Stop Negative Thoughts https://confusedgirlinthecity.com We all struggle with that negative voice in our head. Here are some tools to shut the little guy up 😉 “It takes but one positive thought when given a chance to survive and thrive to overpower an entire army of negative thoughts.” -Robert H. Schuller Leave your comments! […]
Dealing With Failure At some point in all our lives we are going to deal with failure. “You win a little you lose a little.” If that is the case, then why are we so scared of failing? Some people are so scared that they never try and others fail and never try again. This […]
How To Make Good Friends Many psychologists and people that are about to pass away say “the most sacred thing in life is the relationships we form with others”. It’s not the career we have nor our money in the bank. It’s the love that we give and receive from the people we cherish. This […]
Self Sabotaging Relationships I’ve been known to self sabotage my own happiness. I think it is a common thing we do when we start to feel a certain level of joy. Unfortunately, in our society we are not taught to be happy so the uncommon feeling can really freak us out. In this video I […]
How To Overcome Social Anxiety I have come to believe that social anxiety is just part of the human experience. Even though some suffer more than others, everyone knows how it feels to become anxious in social situations. In this video, I talk about 3 ways that will help you deal with this issue. “Nothing […]
When A Friend Hits On Your Man I got an anonymous message from a girl asking for advice about her situation. Her good friend has been hitting on her boyfriend and she doesn’t know what to do. Well friendships can be tough and every situation is different but from where I’m standing, life is too […]
How To Not Give A F@#k In a world that cares way too much about other people’s opinions, “How To Not Give A F@#k” is the problem-free philosophy of replacing attachment and desire with a perpetual strive for self-improvement and growth. We are all on a unique journey and need to be true to ourselves. […]
Mirror Mirror On The Wall Who Is The Fairest Of Them All I got a little introspective this week after a conversation with 2 different guys at an art event. I found the one that was less attractive according to society’s standards to be way more attractive. This got me thinking about our ideals of […]
You Can’t Always Get What You Want “You can’t always get what you want But if you try sometimes well you might find You get what you need” ~ Rolling Stones This week, a friend and I struggled with not getting what we thought was rightfully coming to us. After our devastation, I pondered why […]
