Category Archives: People & Blogs

When A Friend Hits On Your Man

When A Friend Hits On Your Man I got an anonymous message from a girl asking for advice about her situation. Her good friend has been hitting on her boyfriend and she doesn’t know what to do. Well friendships can be tough and every  situation is different but from where I’m standing, life is too […]

How To Not Give A F@#k

How To Not Give A F@#k In a world that cares way too much about other people’s opinions, “How To Not Give A F@#k” is the problem-free philosophy of replacing attachment and desire with a perpetual strive for self-improvement and growth. We are all on a unique journey and need to be true to ourselves. […]

Mirror Mirror On The Wall Who Is The Fairest Of Them All

Mirror Mirror On The Wall Who Is The Fairest Of Them All I got a little introspective this week after a conversation with 2 different guys at an art event. I found the one that was less attractive according to society’s standards to be way more attractive. This got me thinking about our ideals of […]

You Can’t Always Get What You Want

You Can’t Always Get What You Want “You can’t always get what you want But if you try sometimes well you might find You get what you need” ~ Rolling Stones This week, a friend and I struggled with not getting what we thought was rightfully coming to us. After our devastation, I pondered why […]

Young Adult

Young Adult Our society tends to dismiss play for adults. Play is perceived as unproductive, petty or even a guilty pleasure. The notion is that once we reach adulthood, it’s time to get serious. And between personal and professional responsibilities, there’s no time to play. Change how you think about play. Remember that play is […]

The Casual Breakup

The Casual Breakup Break ups, even causal ones, have their casualties. The “take no prisoners” attitude needs to change!

Why Men Love Football

Why Men Love Football This last Sunday I got peer pressured into going to a Super Bowl party.  I really just wanted to stay at home and watch the Real Housewives but sometimes the FOMO is too great. I decided to turn this event into a social experiment and examine “why men love football.” There […]

When People Talk Trash

Ask Confused Girl “When People Talk Trash” “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.” – Eleanor Roosevelt Katie from LA wrote me a message about a Co- worker who said some pretty nasty things about her to a business associate. Like Katie, we all have had people say mean things […]

The Perks Of Being Sick

The Perks Of Being Sick “How being sick taught me acceptance” The last couple of weeks have been so crazy with so much to do. I feel like there is not enough time in the day to complete everything. Of course, I get sick when things start to get busy in my life. Why couldn’t […]

Disasters in Paradise

Disasters in Paradise Shit Happens! Especially when on vacation! I decided to do something different this year. Instead of going home and doing the same old Christmas, I went to Colorado with a friend of mine. Her family has a beautiful home in Denver and a condo in Keystone. So we decided to do a […]

What I Learned From a First Date

“What I Learned From a First Date” Dating can be really annoying or really interesting. I guess it all depends on your expectations and who you are going out with. Whether it be a date or hanging with friends, I like to be around people that can see life a little differently. That way, I […]

How To Avoid Being A Christmas A**hole

How To Avoid Being A Christmas A**hole homepage Lets be honest. The Holidays can really bring out the fool in some people. Myself included. I discuss 3 different types of xmas assholes and how to avoid being one of them! For this weeks item from Confused Girl Activewear, take a look at this adorable Spirit […]