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Dealing with Failure
Dealing With Failure
At some point in all our lives we are going to deal with failure. “You win a little you lose a little.” If that is the case, then why are we so scared of failing? Some people are so scared that they never try and others fail and never try again. This videos provides some guidance on how to deal with failure. It also gives tools on how to beat it!
Leave your comments! Would love to hear what you think 🙂
How To Deal With Failure! Tools for a happy life 🙂
You are so freakin cute. I love your southern drawl. I wish I knew you so I
could try to sweet talk u. :-p
great video!!!! ,,words so true! all the best from Corpus Christi,TX!!
One big thing for me is that I don’t allow myself into the illusion of
control. Everyone likes to say that you’re in control of your future, when
really you’re kind of powerless. That doesn’t mean you’re blameless, it
just means that it’s not always your fault… you just have to be honest
with yourself. It’s also good to plan ahead, to a maximum of 10 steps, or
about a week or two ahead… go any further and you’re likely to get
disappointed, which will make you feel worse.
BTW you misspelled “lose”. It’s not “loose”, that’s a different word. But
you’re not alone, a LOT of people do this for some reason. 😛
Just imagine if some guys were daring you to do something and you failed,
then one of them says, “You lose, woman!” But when you type/spell that out,
it becomes, “You loose, woman!” Lol. Hopefully you get the distinction
there. And how it can become very problematic if used incorrectly. 😛
Bout time for a new video lol 🙂 jk great vid you are awesome
The importance of success has little bearing on your own happiness.
Corporate culture makes success the focal point, because your success,
makes *them* successful.
But consider musicians who write a song that makes them millions of
dollars. They are certainly not satisfied with just making one song, and
while everyone greatly appreciates that and considers them a great success,
it has little bearing on their desire to continue making music. The same
with actors..
I live by a simple maxim, “Happiness is the meaning of life.”
Happiness and healthy ambition are inseparable. When you’re passionate
about something, then you will find a way to manifest that desire. In more
ways than one.
It’s like reincarnation. (Assuming for argument’s sake, the concept is
valid) We are born again and again, because we see the potential in each
life to manifest joy and love. This nature is fundamental to our being, and
thus the meaning of life itself.
So, when you really enjoy doing something, you’re not affected by success
or failure.
Great advice. Love your videos
the easiest way to overcome failure / deal with failure, just hit the
bar,,,,,,,,hahaha >>>>>>>> just kidding
u have beautiful eyes. it reminds me of Arabian nights>>> not kidding
Moving on and learning from failure. I am divorced so I consider my
marriage a failure.
I never thought I would get over getting divorced. It took me three years,
but I did. I’m proud of myself.
Thank you for another thought provoking video!! xx
awsome shit , great video , i felt like ive failed at everything in my life
but part of success is failure other wise success would be average
This is such a great help for my life 🙂
my whole life is like a failure, if it’s school, if it’s relationships, if
it’s family, if it’s anything, it’s all just a big fat failure in my face.
I really wished that I’d seen this earlier, i was actually just recovering
from failure when I came upon your video, thank you so much 🙂 I feel so
much better! 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
Lol, ” The Big o’ F Word.”
Thanks so much for this video. My partner and I are going through a really
tough time financially right now, and we have been trying to use more
positive thinking and energetic shifts in consciousness to help manifest
what we want and deserve. Your words really helped to keep solidifying
these revolutionary concepts for the health of the mind. Hoping things
will look up soon. <3
You only allow failure if you know the meaning..xmarines do not understand
this word..it how to make it happen..period
Your thinking too much about it, you win some, you loose some, you just
sound like your stewing over something and beating ourself up over nothing.
You get where you get eventually if you are determined enough.
Very sound insight. Thank you so much for sharing these valuable nuggets!
Great Video and great start for channel, keep it up. I’m just subscribed.
Your videography is great and I like the advice and seriousness of the
topic…and truth of your insights. Jake
This video was really great and totally on point! It’s always scary to just
go for something, especially if you fail, but that’s just what you gotta
do. And there will always be more opportunities to travel again. New
Zealand sounds awesome. I would love to go there some day. (I’d love to go
pretty much everywhere someday, though. xD )
You get disappointed in life, you get over it and move on with life, its
just great experience you have as a bonus in life. failed – get up-move
on-be happy- dont be a pussy-stay tall and proud-be yourself-be human!!
I liked that last part… about failure being proportionate to success…
has a certain yin yang kinda je ne sais quoi to it. I’m subscribed to a lot
of confused girls in LA… but ehh… what’s one more… new sub 🙂
I love this! Great advice! 🙂
Good video kid. To put it in mma terms life is a series of
ass-kickings,sometimes a person is on the receiving end or dishing it out.
Life kicked my ass pretty good but I somehow keep getting back up ( with no
clue what to do next).
Thanks, hope things get better and wish you nothing but the best and
success .
Sounds like your negative thoughts just brought you more negative things. I
think failure is an experience to teach you that you’re meant to do
something else. I always think if something doesn’t happen that it’s just
not meant to be and move on. This is a very motivational video, thanks for
sharing.
this really great and i can relate to it 😀 ,thanks for sharing!
failure sucks espsecially when you are not trying to fail and i really hate
that my parents say if i continue to fail i might work as a garbage men
it help alot to get this experiense! the tought is that i somtimes feel
alone whit my toughts, and meaby have urge to share whit others by
commuticating whit persons in real life!
Failure is feedback from your life to your awareness! Beautiful!