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How To Attract A Good Man

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How To Attract A Good Man

Through all of my crazy experiences on planet earth, I think I finally understand how to attract better things into my life. In this video, I talk about how to attract a good man but this philosophy can apply to everything in your life.

Leave your comments! Would love to hear what you think 🙂

ConfusedGirlLA

18 thoughts on “How To Attract A Good Man”

  2. BlueButterfly says:

    this is great advise for someone who is getting near their dating age.
    Thank you so much!

  3. Ginny B says:

    Could you do a video about what you need to know before moving out to live
    by yourself/ away from family?? Love your channel, you give the best advice
    out there 🙂

  4. TACisAWESOME says:

    I’m probably going to be alone for the rest of my life. *plays song “All By
    Myself”*

  5. Orion Xavier says:

    I think a lot of us are attracted to people like how we’re attracted to
    junk food, or fast food. Usually the best looking “food” is the most toxic
    or unhealthy.

    The Law of Attraction is about what you want, and *only* what you want.
    When you are saying, “I want this, *but I don’t want this.*”, you’re not
    decisively seeking what you want, and therefore cannot strongly attract
    what you want. The stronger your thoughts and emotions are towards
    something, the stronger your actions will be in achieving that end. But if
    you are also trying to avoid negative criticism, or the things you don’t
    want out of life, or from others, the weaker you will attract what you
    really want.

    And like you pointed out, peers and family can’t tell you who you are. But
    instead of examining the ways in which this has shaped your identity and
    even to what extent your subconscious, simply understand *the truth*.
    Understand your nature. What really makes you happy? When you know yourself
    in this way, you are free. Free to be yourself, and therefore attract the
    best person for you, because you are now thinking and acting solely based
    on what makes you happy. And not what makes you fearful, insecure, or any
    other negative (irrelevant) emotion.

    Inscribed in the Temple of Apollo at Delphi was the maxim, “TEMET NOSCE”.
    KNOW THYSELF.

  6. Orion Xavier says:

    To put it another way:

    The meaning of life is happiness.
    Fear is irrelevant.
    Depression is irrelevant.
    Shame is irrelevant.
    Anger is irrelevant.
    …

    What makes you happy, what you desire, is like a river. That is your
    nature, which will never change. A river flows only in one direction. And
    that current is as strong as your desire.

    In life, we place ourselves in “canoes” on that river. *There is only one
    direction we can go.* But a lot of the time, we try to paddle against the
    current, to stay in one spot. Or we try to paddle upstream, because it
    looks very interesting over there, or maybe there’s some interesting
    people. So you’re fighting your nature, everything that you are that is
    pulling you in the opposite direction.

    And other times, it’s because there’s a bear that just showed up and
    started fishing but decided to try to eat you instead. 😛 It’s situations
    like these, especially with adversity, that makes us aware there’s only one
    direction to go. And that is to follow your heart; to do what makes you
    happy.

  13. Class Punk says:

    I don’t really see what any of this has to do with any kind of substantial
    strategy for attracting men, I suppose the difference is in “attract” and
    “obtain”, one does require more effort which is why American women
    especially are increasingly confused.

  14. mlvlatina says:

    Captain Save a Hoe! Love it!

    I exclusively date/attract criminals. I need to work on this. I know it’s
    because my mother never loved me, but there is nothing I can do about
    that…

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