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Self Sabotaging Relationships
Self Sabotaging Relationships
I’ve been known to self sabotage my own happiness. I think it is a common thing we do when we start to feel a certain level of joy. Unfortunately, in our society we are not taught to be happy so the uncommon feeling can really freak us out.
In this video I talk about how I almost self sabotaged a really good relationship.
“I have a tendency to sabotage relationships; I have a tendency to sabotage everything. Fear of success, fear of failure, fear of being afraid. Useless, good-for-nothing thoughts.”
~Michael Buble
Leave your comments! Would love to hear what you think 🙂
If you have ever Self Sabotaged your own happiness….you must check this
out! 🙂
A good topic would be why do friends change, like who they used to be, the
morals they stood for, etc. Good videos as always, and you look beautiful
as always 🙂
So true,spot on
I will check myself, before I wreck myself.
I always have bad luck with relationships as someone else that will be that
persons friend or fily or my own family destroys it everytime so it been a
year or more now living the single life
I put on deodorant! That’s cute. You seem to be a really down girl. He’s
lucky to have you and I hope it works out for you.
Also, great vid as always.
Great video,congrats
Hiya, you know I love your vids. It’s like a free therapy session, I hope
it will help some people to think about the things they do inside of a
relationship. Not me, I’m perfect.
I’m very good at sabotaging my whole life. Thanks for posting this.
u dating —was very bad news for me.i thought we are going to marry .
JK
it’s amazing all the crap that you’ve been through that you always keep a
smile on your face 🙂 you really are a role model!
:):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)
Fantastic!. You made me laugh so hard! Wine…it’s sometimes our own worse
enemy! It’s no good letting your arse show! I can relate to this..!
yep..that old shit keeps showing it’s ugly head…but sometimes there’s
good reason for it too. Don’t forget that! Sometimes what you call
self-sabotage..just might be ‘intuition’…and that’s not something that
should be ignored! Btw..loving your vids..will check out more later. Got an
assignment to wrote up right now and getting distracted!!
Maybe I’m just too young, 21 going on 13. Haha. But those are like, the
most fake bullshit texts I’ve ever heard. I’d be like yo, fuck your boys.
And I would get some shit back like fuck your wine and then the apology
text would be like lol dat wine tho and his response would be lol cool. Ok,
not really that bad, but still. Much more simple. Like do people seriously
talk like fucking… I dunno… wine connoisseurs? Bond villains? I feel
like while those texts are happening you’re eating smelly cheese and
drinking 70$ wine and he’s like, twisting his long mustache, adjusting his
monocle and burning money or something. To me that response of his would
piss me off. Like oh, I’m too smart to have feelings bro? Damn. It happens.
People get insecure. Shit. We aren’t fucking perfect little trophies. Lmao.
I guess I’m just way too straight forward and free with feelings maybe?
Also, I agree with the friend video suggestion. I’m currently losing a lot
of them because they all keep changing their beliefs and standards and even
just… Entire personalities it seems. Growing up blows.
Just some advice for girls. If a night was originally put off and then a
guy says he is having a boys night, remember that he is obliged in the guys
code to honor his commitment to his friend. And in the early stages of a
courtship his mate will trump his new GF, especially if it is previously
organised get together, his friend is single and he wants a proper boys
night. Don’t ever be offended by that, and in fact be happy, it means he is
a loyal friend who has his priorities in place. Just wish him a great
night, have fun yourself and see him another night just the two of you!
This will give you massive Kudo’s in the eyes of your new man!
I guess in a way your outburst was a way to measure how attracted he was to
you. If he wasn’t that attracted to you, he would probably have blown you
off.
Ok so you kind of speed through the part at 1:15 where you admit that you
told him “Tuesday wasn’t good (to meet)”? And you’re offended that he made
plans and wasn’t willing to come see you at the spur of the moment? Now
*I’m* confused. 😛
Oh girl this made me laugh A LOT. I’m curious what he thinks of these
videos?! Girl chat later 🙂
She’s very pretty. Since I have Asperger’s syndrome her advice will never
work for me. Guys like me are bound to fuck up at relationships.
She “showed her ass” is the phrase.It’s ususally used in reference to
someone other than yourself, so kudos to you for using it in reference to
yourself.
I showed my ass….is probably the best way to say it.
What i don’t understood is actally how you are not really
a lot more neatly-favored than you might be right now.
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Its like men and women aren’t interested until it is something
to accomplish with Girl gaga! Your own stuffs great.
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