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Dealing With Negativity
Dealing With Negativity
“We focus so much on our differences, and that is creating, I think, a lot of chaos and negativity and bullying in the world. And I think if everybody focused on what we all have in common – which is – we all want to be happy.” Ellen DeGeneres
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This advise is kind of troubling me. It’s okay to follow it, if your job
has been temp work, you’ve only been there for a short amount of time, or
it’s entrance level work… but especially with things like debt, rent,
mortgages, contracts, loans… it can be tricky. It’s nice to think that
the easiest way to get out of something not so pleasant is to leave,
however, with the society we’ve created and have voluntarily given our
lives to, we bind ourselves to things… and those things just need to be
ridden out, or ended on agreed terms. Nevertheless, as with everything in
life, it comes down the context.
The way I see it, is that your happiness is like a business, sometimes
there’s growth, sometimes there’s stagnation, sometimes there’s decline…
that’s perfectly fine, healthy and normal. Some believe that’s a part of
being alive, and human (on some levels anyway). As long as your levels
don’t go below 0 per say, you’re all good.
Love & peace
I really like this video, it shows that you have the right motivations and
are not afraid to trust your gut. I really enjoy your serious good advice
niche where your giving solid life advice with a touch of show-womanship
flair. Hope the leggings sell and your life coaching catches on. Keep it
up, cutes. Jake
I can really relate to the idea of staying in that situation is damaging
and we need to focus on changing the situation instead of going numb and
ignoring it year after year. It’s relevant for me at the moment because
after getting sick from a work situation, then spending the last two years
strengthening myself to return full time back at the same place, I’m
finding after 2 weeks at it, the same elements are there that bought me
down before.
So I can see that I need to focus on setting my work situation to were it
is happy and safe, or make steps for change. I have been slightly thinking
about the possibility that this is to harmful and steps need to be taken.
And your right I have to trust in the universe to be positive about the
future.
I wish you well in your business and much growth in your Life Coaching
session. I think it is a pretty awesome thing to take up and share your
positive skills the way you are :)♥
Dus this Also apply to ppl hateing u and starring at u and ur famialy not
fully accepting who u are and feeling like ur famialy dosint even like u
cuz that’s how it is for me all the time
Awesome!! Fully agreed! 🙂
Excellent… This is meant only as feedback on the effectiveness of your
message, not to entice you from your essence into your ego through external
validation. But you are definitely on the right path for you. I feel
happiness for you. (-:
I would LOVE to have a life coach but I live in Florida, sigh
I’m at the stage of my life when I have to find myself a job. My family is
acting like it’s nothing (‘Just get a job’). But I really wanna do
something that will make me happy, something I will love to go to everyday,
and if I’m completely honest I still don’t know what that is.
love it! such great advice!! thank you <3
Hey there,
Good for you that you not only stood up for and loved yourself enough to
get out of that job situation that was toxic but also found an even better
job and a manufacturer. 🙂
Trusting ourselves and doing what’s right are both beautiful things.
Well the universe has never been favorable to me. My life is full of “bad
luck”. Things only improve to get much worse. “1 step forward, 2 steps
back.”
I can relate to your example of Hostile Work Environment. I left a job
because of that, as the stress was making me sick. Extreme stress over
prolonged periods impairs the immune system. It also makes you age very
fast.
So if it’s a choice between being blackmailed into being miserable (e.g. at
work), or choosing an alternative that is possibly worse, I choose the
latter. So long as it is a path in life of my own choosing, I can accept
the consequences.
great video and wonderful advice x
Congratulations on all the wonderful blessings you have received.
I worked in a hostile work environment for 20 years. I finally had the
strength to take steps to move away from my job.
I am 100% broke now, but I can sleep a bit more peacefully. My situation is
complicated, but I know I would have died if I continued working there.
Take care Giovanna.
xxoo
Aw im so glad I came across you today! 🙂 you really lifted me.. perfect
timing xx
I’m not sure what you intended your art piece to represent, but it looks
like birch trees to me. 🙂
Another great video 🙂
congrats on all of the great things that happened, I’m sure they will
continue to bless you 😉
I also love the artwork you did! I would do something of that scale, but i
already asked my man about a month ago and she no X). But it’s not a big
deal 🙂 But I really do love it, it’s truly a wonderful work of art 😀
Come and play on my walls 😉
Try to take the negative jabs as a compliment. I find that haters are often
jealous, secret admirers riddled with self loathing issues.
I have enacted some serious purging with previous “friends” and I realized
that the worst, most toxic friends were the subtle, catty, passive ones. I
do take pity on them because they were/are very angry and unhappy.
when i deal with it just ignore or talk negative back possible as i can if
try be aware with negativity that what i do best
Attracted by the beauty, subscribed for the smarts!
awesome tips ^^
Hey girl, first of all I perceive you not to be confused, but an extremely
ambitious and very attractive female. Secondly, when you mentioned that
your boss could not even look you straight in the eyes, when he was
speaking to you, that shows signs of deception because the eyes are the
windows to the soul. I demand that people look at me straight forward so I
can get a view on who I’m dealing with. I encourage you to move forward
with your goals in life. Stay positive and attractive. Bye now.
There should be more people like u in the world
There is too much negativity in the world, between different races,
countries, and just differences between people.
Dear world,
My best friend is a Muslim, and I am a Jew …………….. It’s that
simple.