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How To Make Good Friends
How To Make Good Friends
Many psychologists and people that are about to pass away say “the most sacred thing in life is the relationships we form with others”. It’s not the career we have nor our money in the bank. It’s the love that we give and receive from the people we cherish.
This can be a very scary thought if we surround ourselves with people that make us feel bad or drain us of energy. Well, watch the video and find out 🙂 I believe we all want to be with people that inspire and empower us. So how do we make the shift from toxic relationships to health ones?
“It is only the great hearted who can be true friends. The mean and cowardly, can never know what true friendship means.”
– Charles Kingsley
Leave your comments! Would love to hear what you think 🙂
We all want to be with people that inspire and empower us. So how do we
make the shift from toxic relationships to health ones? Watch the vid…I
got you 😉
I don’t understand girls always talk shit behind their backs cx
I consider a lot of my friends parasites. They think I’m on their side but
really I’m not xD
great video! I shall apply it to my life even though I’m not a girl xD
Thank you I agree. I did house cleaning too..
One of my biggest problems is that I try to be the friend that I want to
have, but others don’t reciprocate the gesture.
Now that I got that out of the way, I agree. I definitely had to do house
cleaning and things are getting better. The next thing is trying to find
new ones.
Im sorry but this didn’t work for me. Sorry
phony is too good to discribe them
it is hypocrisy– say things and do utterly different things
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UTTERLY ..a new vocab i just learned today hahaha
joe rogan speaks about this kinda thing =) ENERGY VAMPIRES…nice on CG, i
try and practice what you preach =)
Your the sweetest girl in the world I really care about you
Self proclaimed confused girl certainly has the “I know everything”
attitude…is the name supposed to be ironic?
I like this video my real friends and u inspires me no matter what
As retired therapist, I agree with what you are saying .. you are young and
need to learn. You may have a lot of acquaintances but really no real
friends. My motto was, you are a product of your environment. Like, your
channel will subscribe.
Well it’s safe to assume the reason they “hang out”, like some so called
“friends”, is for an ulterior motive other than friendship. They want
something from that person, or the people in their social network. As a
social phobic and highly introverted person, I’m keenly aware of the
necessity of networking, in regards to working for a living. Because it has
been a huge setback for me.. I’m actually barely alive right now.
So they might talk bad about that person but they don’t want to “burn that
bridge” by cutting them out of their social circle(s). Because they could
potentially connect them with someone else they know (who also probably
loathes that person lol).
“The most sacred thing in life is the relationships we form with others” I
definitely felt that when I was near death. I was so sad that I would not
be around to make people happy. Which was definitely a strange sentiment
for me since I’m a very private and introverted person. I think love is
fundamental to our spirit, but how much of it we express is dependent on
our own physical and mental development.
It’s also the greater purpose behind good deeds. A lot of Christians miss
this lesson. I’m guilty of this too. I consider kindness and consideration
a duty. But it’s more than that. It’s about connecting with people. Not
necessarily who they are, or personally, but connecting in the spirit of
kindness. To appreciate and *feel* it on a spiritual level.
I merely point out to you that, as a matter of fact, certain persons do
exist with an enormous capacity for friendship and for taking delight in
other people’s lives; and that such person know more of truth than *if
their hearts were not so big.*
-William James, *Talks to Teachers on Psychology and to Students on Some of
Life’s Ideals*, 1911
..That certainly describes some people I know. Especially my brother. Being
gregarious tends to attract thieves; enemies, in your midst. A gregarious
person enjoys socializing and therefore tends to make a lot of friends.
Because they are agreeable by nature- “that such a person could know more
truth of people, if their hearts were not so big”.
Thanks for sending me your video. I had to do a bit of ‘friend’ cleaning
myself recently.
Thanis for emailing this to me, you’re very wise and I subscribed. 🙂
I’m a sociopath you stupid fucking bitch
Somewhat attracted to the idea of this video.. It always depends on your
environment and the people in your environment. I’m not going to ramble my
thoughts but to an extent what your saying is situational. Good video the
eye contact is good lighting was fine sound is appropriate keep it up.
I subscribed! I think you’re awesome!
step 1. be attractive
Hahaa i like youuu 😀 #subscribed
Thumbed up and subbed!
Thank you for sending me your video. It’s nice to know there’s someone else
out there thinking these things. Very structured and to the point. Be a
good friend and you’ll attract good friends. 😀
Truth hurts sometimes, but your right about just being honest especially to
those close around you. By the way you look very beautiful in this vlog
Thumbed and Subbed
this is inspiring. I watched your video on social anxiety and it really
helped me. You are so beautiful!
+ConfusedGirlLA
*Interesting video.. Thanks for sharing it to me..*
*Thanks really.. but i don’t have friends.. so.. its alright..*
*Subscribed anyways..*
Watch out for “energy vampires” if you know what I mean.
Don’t talk to anybody ever and tell EVERYBODY don’t talk! (Insane Kanye
West Legendary Rant). Good Advice Not so Confused Girl. Napoleon Hill
called it The Power of Association “Who you associate with, you become
like”
.. :* so lovely :* you are ..
I have this friend who really annoys me, but I hang out with him when he
asks because I hate being mean. I don’t like hurting people. we became
friends because he just kept on talking to me on the bus. He’s really not
bad person, I think he’s kool just that he gets annoying.
I love what you said about assessing the evening you spend with others to
see if it’s worth your time and energy to be around them any further.
Nicely done and congrats on the clothing line. Much success.
My friends from school are incredible my friends from school are what’s
important
You are so precious and so full of wisdom to be so young. Been watching
your vids for about an hour and… surprise – dual bonus for me!
Double-whammy serving of insights I needed on this self-care day. Virtual
hugs, blessings and thanks.
Yeah, I also wouldn’t advice anyone to hang with energy draining people.
But contrary to what you say about life being short; life never ends, it
goes on for eternity and that’s a long time (though time does really
exist).