Self Sabotaging Relationships

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Self Sabotaging Relationships

I’ve been known to self sabotage my own happiness. I think it is a common thing we do when we start to feel a certain level of joy. Unfortunately, in our society we are not taught to be happy so the uncommon feeling can really freak us out.

In this video I talk about how I almost self sabotaged a really good relationship.

“I have a tendency to sabotage relationships; I have a tendency to sabotage everything. Fear of success, fear of failure, fear of being afraid. Useless, good-for-nothing thoughts.”
~Michael Buble

Leave your comments! Would love to hear what you think ๐Ÿ™‚

26 thoughts on “Self Sabotaging Relationships

  1. grayskyambient254 says:

    A good topic would be why do friends change, like who they used to be, the
    morals they stood for, etc. Good videos as always, and you look beautiful
    as always ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Michael O'Rourke says:

    I always have bad luck with relationships as someone else that will be that
    persons friend or fily or my own family destroys it everytime so it been a
    year or more now living the single life

  3. M Da Martian says:

    I put on deodorant! That’s cute. You seem to be a really down girl. He’s
    lucky to have you and I hope it works out for you.

  4. Liane Robinson says:

    Hiya, you know I love your vids. It’s like a free therapy session, I hope
    it will help some people to think about the things they do inside of a
    relationship. Not me, I’m perfect.

  5. BlueButterfly says:

    it’s amazing all the crap that you’ve been through that you always keep a
    smile on your face ๐Ÿ™‚ you really are a role model!
    :):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)

  6. Goddess Within says:

    Fantastic!. You made me laugh so hard! Wine…it’s sometimes our own worse
    enemy! It’s no good letting your arse show! I can relate to this..!
    yep..that old shit keeps showing it’s ugly head…but sometimes there’s
    good reason for it too. Don’t forget that! Sometimes what you call
    self-sabotage..just might be ‘intuition’…and that’s not something that
    should be ignored! Btw..loving your vids..will check out more later. Got an
    assignment to wrote up right now and getting distracted!!

  7. Jenna D says:

    Maybe I’m just too young, 21 going on 13. Haha. But those are like, the
    most fake bullshit texts I’ve ever heard. I’d be like yo, fuck your boys.
    And I would get some shit back like fuck your wine and then the apology
    text would be like lol dat wine tho and his response would be lol cool. Ok,
    not really that bad, but still. Much more simple. Like do people seriously
    talk like fucking… I dunno… wine connoisseurs? Bond villains? I feel
    like while those texts are happening you’re eating smelly cheese and
    drinking 70$ wine and he’s like, twisting his long mustache, adjusting his
    monocle and burning money or something. To me that response of his would
    piss me off. Like oh, I’m too smart to have feelings bro? Damn. It happens.
    People get insecure. Shit. We aren’t fucking perfect little trophies. Lmao.
    I guess I’m just way too straight forward and free with feelings maybe?
    Also, I agree with the friend video suggestion. I’m currently losing a lot
    of them because they all keep changing their beliefs and standards and even
    just… Entire personalities it seems. Growing up blows.

  8. Steve Moore says:

    Just some advice for girls. If a night was originally put off and then a
    guy says he is having a boys night, remember that he is obliged in the guys
    code to honor his commitment to his friend. And in the early stages of a
    courtship his mate will trump his new GF, especially if it is previously
    organised get together, his friend is single and he wants a proper boys
    night. Don’t ever be offended by that, and in fact be happy, it means he is
    a loyal friend who has his priorities in place. Just wish him a great
    night, have fun yourself and see him another night just the two of you!
    This will give you massive Kudo’s in the eyes of your new man!

  9. Orion Xavier says:

    I guess in a way your outburst was a way to measure how attracted he was to
    you. If he wasn’t that attracted to you, he would probably have blown you
    off.

  10. Orion Xavier says:

    Ok so you kind of speed through the part at 1:15 where you admit that you
    told him “Tuesday wasn’t good (to meet)”? And you’re offended that he made
    plans and wasn’t willing to come see you at the spur of the moment? Now
    *I’m* confused. ๐Ÿ˜›

  11. Amy Williams says:

    Oh girl this made me laugh A LOT. I’m curious what he thinks of these
    videos?! Girl chat later ๐Ÿ™‚

  12. Robert Small says:

    She’s very pretty. Since I have Asperger’s syndrome her advice will never
    work for me. Guys like me are bound to fuck up at relationships.

  13. Laurie Marinelli says:

    She “showed her ass” is the phrase.It’s ususally used in reference to
    someone other than yourself, so kudos to you for using it in reference to
    yourself.

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